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Monday, May 11, 2009

Hari Ibu. Patutkah Ibu Dicerca

Aku perlahan-lahan manaiki anak tangga menuju rumahku. Tiba-tiba aku terkejut dengan pasangan yang sungguh bermasalah bergaduh lagi. Suami dan isteri saling tengking menengking antara satu sama lain. Jiran-jiran habis semua keluar untuk melihat apa masalah yang berlaku. Si ibu melihat keadaan lalu menegur mereka berdua. " Tak baik nak, bergaduh macam tu. Malu jiran-jiran tengok. Selesai la cara baik ". Si menantu lelaki terus marah. " Mak jangan masuk campur hal kami ".

Sianak perempuan pula menyampuk, " Ish... orang tua ni suka sangat masuk campur rumahtangga orang lain ". Si ibu terdiam sambil menyapu air mata yang meleleh dipipinya. nampak sangat ibu begitu terharu dengan kelakuan anak menantunya. Apakah patut ibu dicerca begitu depan orang ramai. Kalau ibu bapa tidak masuk campur sudah pastinya pasangan ini tidak dapat berkahwin dengan sempurna. Sedih aku melihat kelakuan anak menantu ibu ini. Baru-baru ini si ibu berjumpa aku lalu berkata, " Budiman, makcik sedih melihat perangai anak makcik. Adakah patut makcik diherdik begitu ". Airmata si ibu mengalir lagi.

Aku tak terkata apa-apa. Aku hanya mampu berkata, " Tak apalah makcik, solat nanti makcik jangan nlupa berdoa kepada Allah agar mereka sedar akan perbuatan mereka dan kembali ke jalan yang diredhoinya. Doa ibu walaupun baik atau buruk Allah akan makbul ". Aku pun masih mempunyai seorang ibu dan ibu mertua. Ibuku selepas tragedi koma selama 2 minggu akibat semburan ubat nyamuk. Kini dia banyak kehilangan daya ingatan. Kerap dia akan bertanya soalan yang sama." Budiman bila nak bawa isteri datang jumpa emak ". Aku berkata'" Tak boleh lagi mak. Budiman bukan akad nikah lagi baru bertunang ". Ibu hanya terdiam. Kemudian menanyakan soalan yang sama kembali.

Yang paling kami sekeluarga bersyukur ialah ibu kami setakat ini tidak pernah hilang ingatan akan bab solat. Cukup waktu pasti dilakukannya dengan sempurna. Bagi aku itulah kelebihan yang Allah berikan kepada mereka yang tidak pernah melewatkan bab solat dan ibu kami tidak pernah melalaikan waktu solatnya alhamdulillah. Kini kami sekeluarga pastinya akan melayan kerenah ibu kami dengan soalan yang sama setiap hari. Kita sebagai anak pernah menjadi anak-anak kecil satu mmasa dahulu dan pastinya ibu kita pun tidak jemu melayan kerenah kita dengan soalan yang sama setiap hari.

Teringat aku iklan petronas pada hari raya tahun 2007 tentang murai. Iklan itu memang mempunyai pengajaran yang amat berguna kepada mereka yang bergelar anak. hargailah pengorbanan Ibu dan Ayah. Jangan ibaratkan mereka sebagai sampah apabila mereka tua dan yang pastinya kita juga sedang berjalan kearah itu satu hari nanti dan apakah pula perasaan kita bila anak kita memperlakukan kita demikian. Fikir-fikirkanlah


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zai said...

hanya seorang ibu yg tahu betapa sshnya utk membawa bayi yg dikandung 9 bulan, siksanya sewaktu melahirkan..sbb itu seandainya derhaka pada ibu..Allah xdak akan menangguhkan pembalasannya sampai hari akhirat.di dunia lagi bermacam bala akan menimpa..

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